“Book Descriptions: "Part memoir, part self-help guide, this book explores the physical and emotional journey of having a phalloplasty (lower surgery). Finlay Games takes the reader through his experience, from the initial decision-making through each stage of the surgery to its completion, to recovery and after-care. He provides a rich, honest and nuanced account of being a trans man, depicting his experience of relearning his body, sexuality and relationships whilst sharing the process of surgery in practical terms. From the early decision making to the different stages of surgery and its after care, Finlay shares the highs and lows of his experience with refreshing honesty"--” DRIVE